Mexico: A Feminist Utopia?
Written by Brian Garst, Posted in General/Misc.
Mexican men beware – if you cross an arbitrary line for the acceptable levels of jealousy allowed to be exhibited, show “indifference” toward your wife, or neglect her carnal needs, you might just find yourself behind bars:
Mexican men who display extreme jealousy or avoid sex with their wives could be tried in court and punished under a new law, the special prosecutor for crimes against women told a local newspaper on Friday.
Men who phone their wives every half hour to check up on them, constantly suspect them of infidelity or try to control the way they dress are committing the crime of jealousy, special prosecutor Alicia Elena Perez Duarte told Excelsior newspaper.
Those who stop talking to their wives, avoid sex or try to convince suspicious spouses they are “crazy” even if they are caught red-handed having an affair, are guilty of indifference, she said.
Men found guilty of jealousy or indifference could face up to five years in prison, the newspaper said. Mexico’s individual states will determine the punishments, it said.
Controlling women, presumably, are just keeping their philandering men in line. Or so we are left to surmise.
From what I gather, the law is ostensibly designed to reduce domestic violence by criminalizing sometimes correlated behaviors, but that is simply sloppy lawmaking. The result is a law patronizing women by presuming they cannot deal with civil disputes on their own like adults, and subjects men to a ridiculous double-standard, effectively codifying in the criminal code the already existing social view in Western societies that anything men do is immediately suspect.
I’d say this is a feminist Utopia, but it’s not quite. If that were true, merely being married would be evidence of criminal patriarchal oppression.